If you’ve never talked dirty before, don’t worry! Here are some of the benefits of talking dirty as well as sex therapist-approved tips for how to get started. What to say during sex and what to do during sex both have a lot to do with your partner and what they’re into. Remember that the same “lines” don’t work on everyone. For example, calling your last partner “Daddy” might have made him instantly hard, but your new beau might think of it as boner kryptonite.
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- Think of words that enhance your self-love — juicy, hot, tight, strong, cute, smooth — and enthusiastically inquire about your partner’s faves, too.
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- The next time you and your guy are at a friend’s house party, take him into the spare bedroom and tell him how badly you want him right here and right now.
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Maybe you’ll discover a mutual kink that spices up your sex life. Consensual spanking and light bondage can add an intense edge to your sexual talk. What dirty talk isn’t is some mysterious language. While it might seem like something straight out of erotic literature or a steamy movie scene, it’s useful for elevating communication in the bedroom. These are just a small sample of dirty things that you can say to your guy to turn him and make sex a lot hotter for the both of you.
Ask yourself: How do I want to feel? How do I want my partner to feel?
It may seem strange, but try saying dirty things when you’re totally alone as practice. On the drive to work just say, “I want to fuck you so bad” at a normal volume until it doesn’t make you cringe. We’re all a bit sexually repressed in this country, and it takes some effort to undo that.
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Vocalizing your pleasure guides the action, and delivers fantasies straight from your dreams. Dirty talk isn’t just delivering a monologue so heinous it would make a sailor jealous; it’s about tapping into your imagination to build-up sexual tension. Whether you’re engaging in verbal foreplay before a hookup or uttering passionate prose to your one-night-turned-Mr. Right, fervent communication can be a massive turn-on for everyone. As you can see, there are so many different situations where you can use dirty talk to amp up the sexual tension and turn your man on.
- If user-submitted stories (not to mention free!) are more your jam, check out Literotica or Archive of Our Own—if fan-fiction is more your style.
- If the two of you have fun and don’t only talk about sex, you will find that the transition to talking dirty is more natural and playful.
- “Because dirty talk can increase arousal, it can also make an orgasm more intense,” says Buehler.
- You can ease your way into talking dirty by discussing memories of great times you’ve already shared.
- You might also try listening with your partner to the storytelling erotica app Dipsea or any number of other audio erotica apps.
- Plus, as both Manta and Dr. Jansen mentioned, you can always find your way into sex forums and dating apps.
Don’t Mistake Dirty Talk for Aggressive Sexuality. You don’t have to ram sexuality down his throat with your dirty talk. There is a misconception among women that they can’t be feminine, or that they need to be sexually aggressive to turn a man on. A man will respond to real, authentic, and even shy dirty phrases more so than explicit and aggressive sexual remarks in many cases. This doesn’t mean that some men don’t prefer really bawdy women, but don’t think that you have to be really outlandish to get his attention.